There are three basic types of stem-changing reflexive verbs in Spanish.
| Reflexive Verb | Stem-changing (e-ie) | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Despertarse | me despierto | to wake up | Me despierto a las seis de la mañana. I wake up at six in the morning. |
| Negarse | me niego | to deny/ to refuse | Me niego a ir. I refuse to go. |
| Sentarse | me siento | to sit down | ¿Me siento en el sofá? (Do) I sit on the couch? |
| Sentirse | se siente | to feel | Se siente triste porque perdió el juego. He feels sad because he lost the game. |
| Quererse | me quiero | to want/to love/to wish | Me quiero comprar un televisor. I want to buy a television. |
| Reflexive Verb | Stem-changing (e-i) | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Despedirse | me despido | to say good-bye | Me despido de ti. I say goodbye to you. |
| Desvestirse | me desvisto | to get undressed | Me desvisto antes de ducharme. I undress before showering. |
| Sonreírse | me sonrío | to smile | Me sonrió cuando te veo. I smile when I see you. |
| Vestirse | me visto | to get dressed | ¡Me visto y nos vamos! I get dressed and we go! |
| Reflexive | Stem-changing (o-ue) | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Acostarse | me acuesto | to go to bed | Me acuesto a las nueve de la noche. I go to bed at nine at night. |
| Costarse | te cuesta | to cost | Esta camisa te cuesta veinte dólares. This shirt costs you twenty dollars. |
| Dormirse | me duermo | to go to sleep/ to fall asleep | Aveces me duermo muy tarde. Sometimes I fall asleep very late. |
| Probarse | se prueba | to try on (clothing) | Carmen se prueba la ropa en la tienda. Carmen tries on clothes in the store. |
In Spanish, there are a few irregular verbs in the reflexive forms. The table below is giving examples in the present tense only in the ‘yo‘ form.
| Reflexive Verb | Irregular | Meaning | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Distraerse | me distraigo | to distract (oneself) | Me distraigo fácilmente. I get distracted easily |
| Irse | me voy | to leave | Yo mismo me voy de vacaciones. I’m going on vacation myself. |
| Ponerse | me pongo | to put on | Me pongo el sombrero. I put on my hat. |
| Reponerse | me repongo | to get better/ to recover/ to get over | Me repongo de la gripe fácilmente. I get over the flu easily. |
| Sostenerse | me sostengo | to support/ sustain (oneself) | Me sostengo por mi cuenta. I sustain myself on my own. |
There are some verbs in Spanish that change meanings when used in the reflexive form (formed by adding the suffix –se in the infinitive form). The difference in meaning between a simple verb and its corresponding reflexive verb is slight.
| Verb | Meaning | Reflexive | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| Acercar | to bring near | Acercarse | to bring closer |
| Acordar | to agree | Acordarse | to remember |
| Acostar | to put to bed | Acostarse | to go to bed |
| Acostumbrar | to be in the habit of, to usually do something | Acostumbrarse | to get used to |
| Cambiar | to change | Cambiarse | to change clothes |
| Dormir | to sleep | Dormirse | to fall asleep |
| Enfermar | to make ill/sick | Enfermarse | to become ill/ get sick |
| Engañar | to deceive | Engañarse | to deceive oneself |
| Llamar | to call | Llamarse | to be called/named |
| Matar | to kill | Matarse | to kill oneself, commit suicide |
| Negar | to deny | Negarse | to deny/to refuse |
| Parecer | to appear/ to seem | Parecerse | to look like (someone) |
| Peinar | to comb | Peinarse | to comb oneself |
| Pintar | to paint | Pintarse | to put on make up |
| Preparar | to prepare | Prepararse | to get ready |
| Pobrar | to try/ to taste | Probarse | to try on |
| Quitar | to take away | Quitarse | to take off |
| Sentir | to feel | Sentirse | to feel (emotionally or physically) |
| Volver | to return | Volverse | to become |
Examples:
Jorge se durmió mientras veía la película.
Jorge fell asleep while watching the movie.
Se parece a su madre.
(He) looks like his mother.
Me acuerdo de cuando fui a Francia.
I remember when I went to France.
Ella se peina mientras escucha música.
She combs his hair while listening to music.
Me acostumbré a despertarme temprano.
I got used to getting up early.